Brides really don’t like to be overshadowed.
Everyone always says they are going to lose weight before the wedding. A woman really did, which is great, except for the fact that she is not the bride. Worse yet, the bride is apparently upset because she is worried about not being the focus of attention at her own wedding.
According to a story on Reddit, a woman who lost about 20 pounds last year due to the pandemic is no longer welcome at her sister-in-law’s wedding.
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In a post on the Reddit forums, a user named ThrowRAWeddings shared his story. According to her, she lost about 20 kilos last year due to the pandemic. She explained that she had more time to exercise and focus on eating healthy meals.
Her brother’s sister is getting married later this year and will have only a small group of people at the ceremony. The family recently got together to make plans for the wedding and apparently things did not go well.
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According to the story, “We met yesterday at our home to talk about the wedding plans with her brother and when (the bride) saw me, she got mad at me and accused me of trying to steal her in her own marriage because I’m in shape now and I feel good and confident. “
The story continues: “She said (I) knew she was going to get married and I had my whole life to get in shape, but I purposely decided just before her wedding. My husband defended me in front of her, but after she left he told me that I should have apologized to her because she is very insecure and as her fiance and best friend and the fiance’s parents haven’t seen me since I lost weight, they will notice and it may look like I was purposely trying to get over it. “
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The author concludes the story by saying that she was told that she could not go to the wedding or that she would have to “wear something very loose” so that everyone there would not notice her weight loss.
She writes, “I don’t feel like I did anything on purpose to ruin the marriage, but the fact that my husband, who only supported me, siding with her is driving me crazy!”
Reddit users basically sided with her, with one user writing: “Everyone has insecurities, and it’s difficult, but you can’t demand that other people adjust their lives just to suit their insecurities. The world doesn’t revolve around of your sister-in-law and I think you better not go to the wedding unless there with a loose dress and reaffirm to your sister-in-law that if she has a tantrum, she will get what she wants
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Another user added: “This is crazy! I would be very happy for anyone who focused on getting healthier and looking / feeling good. Good for you for doing so well! Your husband is allowing his sister-in-law to behave badly , there is no reason for that. “
“You are struggling to understand this because it is ridiculous and your husband needs to compose himself,” added another, “and support you here, instead of your sister’s absurd demands.”