There is no precedent for what JoJo did – no star of his caliber, at his age, whose audience is mostly elementary school students, has come out so publicly. And JoJo, with his unshakable joy, is a different example than all LGBTQ youth have ever had.
“JoJo’s pride in his identity and his confidence in ignoring negative responses indicate that his presence on social media will foster a sense of supportive community for LGBTQ youth,” said Traci Gillig, assistant professor of communication at Washington State University who studies the impacts of LGBTQ + Representation among young people. “She is more of a voice – and a great one – communicating to LGBTQ youth that they are loved.”
Now, LGBTQ children have one of the biggest children’s stars in the world at their side.
JoJo says she’s the happiest she’s ever been
For the uninitiated, Joelle Joanie Siwa is a relentless, occasionally irritating sunbeam. She is rarely seen without her gravity defying ponytail, tied perfectly with a huge bow. She exudes innocent and inexhaustible positivity. She makes statements to her young viewers in excited screams.
Since JoJo’s persona has been monetized (and because most of her audience is children), she keeps fans at bay. She invites the cameras into her home and, while she is reliably dizzy and fun, she also plays a role.
His departure, however, was devoid of any pretense.
Someone on Instagram Live asked her how she identified herself. She answered frankly – she doesn’t know.
“I want to share everything with the world; I really do, ”she told her rapt audience. “But I also want to keep things in my life private until they’re ready to go public.”
Still, she “has never, never, never been happier before,” she said, beaming.
“I think assuming has a stigma around it, which is a very, very, very scary thing,” she said. “It is not anymore. There are so many people who accept and love it out there. Of course people will say that it is not normal, but it is your normal.”
JoJo also has the advantage, of course, of being rich and popular online. She could lose a lot if she took over – sponsorships, fans, some income – but non-famous kids who watch her videos can lose a lot more.
But seeing someone like JoJo, who at 17 has conquered worlds, performing in a very public way is still significant, said Jill Gutowitz, a cultural writer whose next book, “Canon,” examines the impact of queer women on pop culture.
“Queer adults have only begun to see themselves represented by highly visible celebrities in recent years, but teenagers and children – the Siwa audience – still don’t have many highly visible and queer pop culture figures to look at,” Gutowitz told CNN by e -mail.
Now, they have one of the most visible children in the world as an example.
“I have heard many people say that launching such a large platform is ‘brave’ and, in a way, this is true, given the history of our culture of burying or erasing queerness,” she said. “But I don’t think JoJo Siwa came in because she was doing something ‘brave’ – I think she left because that’s who she is, and it’s important for her to share everything about herself with her fans.”
In this way, JoJo is living the same values that she extols in her messages to fans: She is being herself.
It is setting a new precedent
Gillig, an assistant professor of communication at Washington State University, said JoJo’s departure is unlike any other celebrity.
“JoJo is a rare example of a young man who was in the media spotlight for years before he became LGBTQ as a teenager,” said Gilig.
However, there is less consensus about children coming out. Children who know they are LGBTQ when they are young are not always believed by adults in their lives, and their experiences are often dismissed, said Lori Duron, an advocate for LGBTQ youth and the mother of a non-binary gay child.
When asked how long she has known she is LGBTQ, JoJo said she has probably known her entire life.
“I always believed that my person would be my person,” she said on Instagram Live. “If that person was a boy, great! If that person was a girl, great!”
Duron said he thinks JoJo’s example can force parents to take their children seriously when they become young.
“For her to come out, keeping it super positive – I think it can change some minds and some hearts,” she said. “Because she is still exactly who she was two days or two weeks ago, and they are seeing it. It is this visibility that softens people’s minds and hearts over time.”
It is also impressive, said Duron, for parents to see the support that JoJo’s parents showed her publicly.
In her follow-up video, JoJo ends with something her father said to her earlier: “‘Hey man, love is universal!'”
“It is very important to see that adults can be safe, have love and support,” said Duron. “I think it’s very important for her audience to see, too – that she is loved and accepted at home.”
She has no time for haters
Still, said Gillig, “the long-term impact of his departure will undoubtedly be positive for LGBTQ people”.
It was just last week for Duron’s son. He, vertiginously, sends JoJo’s TikToks to her and runs to her room to show off her new arc star videos.
“It makes you very happy,” she said. “He still doesn’t feel totally safe at times and he doesn’t see that visibility in the world, so seeing that and seeing someone – he sees her picture when we’re shopping – is just meaningful.
On Instagram Live, JoJo’s joy bubbled up. She laughed, smiled, used “amazing” in all the other phrases. She joked that her face started to hurt from smiling.
Even haters could not dim their brightness.
“Why does she, with the platform and the power she has, want to hide a large part of herself just to make some hateful people comfortable, when all her message is to be loud and proudly yourself?” Said Gutowitz. “It doesn’t make sense to her, and she doesn’t have to do that. And that is a powerful message.”
Shortly after his animated speech on Instagram Live, JoJo left for Canada, where he will stay for months to film a secret project. When and if she is ready, she will tell more about her story to her large audience. But for now, she said enough.
Your happiness speaks for itself.