Pamela Anderson’s turbulent romance and marriage to a builder she hired to repair her home in Canada ended up with a family of five, said her ex.
Anderson, 53, told DailyMailTV on Wednesday in an exclusive worldwide interview that she married Dan Hayhurst, 40 – her fifth husband.
But on Thursday Hayhurst’s ex, named only as Carey, accused Anderson of being a ‘homebreaker’ in an interview with The Sun.
Anderson’s wedding took place on Christmas Eve at his property in Ladysmith, Vancouver Island.
‘We are very happy. I’m happier than ever, ‘Anderson told DailyMailTV.
Pamela Anderson and Dan Hayhurst were married on their Vancouver Island property on Christmas Eve
Dan Hayhurst is photographed with ex-partner Carey. Carey labeled Anderson a “home wrecker” after she allegedly stole Hayhurst and separated a happy family of five
The couple has worked with RASTA Sanctuary, which provides a ‘home forever’ for animals rescued from the farm on Vancouver Island. The sanctuary posted several photos of Anderson and her new husband at the construction site and a video of Anderson feeding some cows
“It’s like a complete circle – coming home and falling in love with someone who is just like me, you know, I think the rest was a dream.
‘It feels more like a reality and it just feels good to be home and to be with someone who really cares about me and who I really am, who I think I am, you know, just like a girl, from the same area and us we get along very well. ‘
Regarding the wedding, she said: ‘It was a short and sweet ceremony with a local and natural pastor. It was easy, not stressful. It’s easy to be together ‘
But Carey tapped the star version of the events.
“This is not the confined love story being portrayed, it is all a facade,” she told The Sun.
‘I decided to speak openly because I want people to know that my relationship of almost five years, with three children involved, ended because of the case that Pam and Dan started while he was still with me.
“It is sad that people celebrate and applaud, when it all started with deception, denial and life-destroying choices for everyone involved.”
Carey told the newspaper that Hayhurst was living with her, her 21-year-old daughter Denise, and their two young children until the summer.
The couple never married, but Carey said they were in a serious relationship.
“We did everything together, like family vacations, family fishing trips, we worked on family projects together,” she said.
‘It was always us.’
Carey and Hayhurst met five years ago on a dating app and lived in the city of Squarmish before moving to Vancouver Island.
Denise had worked for Anderson and Hayhurst was hired by her in the fall of 2019.
At first, Hayhurst complained about his boss, Carey said, and described her as “crazy”.
‘I got married on the property I bought from my grandparents 25 years ago, this is where my parents got married and are still together. I feel like I’ve closed the circle, ‘said Anderson
The bridal bouquet was wrapped in dusty blue tulle to match the dress and included a blue hydrangea, echoing the ocean and symbolizing the water element of emotion
Anderson met Hayhurst, who lived on Vancouver Island, at the beginning of the blockade
In a text shared with The Sun, he wrote: ‘The dragon has been released! Talking about Pam. ‘
In January 2020, it was reported that Anderson married film producer Jon Peters, but she separated from him two weeks later and said it was never a real wedding.
Carey said, ‘I would say,’ What are you doing? You need to get out of this job. It’s crazy. ‘ There was the crazy period when she married that guy Jon Peters for two weeks.
“She told all the contractors that she got married, so when I saw the news, I texted Dan.
‘He responded by saying,’ Hahaha, he’s older than her father, but I think our money problems are over ‘, which he meant because the guy is rich.
– I thought that was very cruel of him. He didn’t really seem to get along with her.
Carey said things started to change at the end of last March, when the lockdown started and Hayhurst spent more and more time with Anderson.
“The worm has turned,” she said. ‘COVID happened and it seemed to happen overnight.
‘Dan would stay at her house and not come back, and here I am looking after the children.
‘At first he denied it when I confronted him, but then, finally, I asked him,’ Are you sleeping with Pam?
‘He said,’ All I’m going to say is that I crossed the line. ‘
‘At first he said,’ I want you to stay at our home. I do not want you to go. I just need to find out. ‘
‘Later, he apologized to me. He said, ‘Carey, I love you. I don’t know what’s going on right now. I’m not in my head right now. I’m not in a good place. ‘
‘He asked me to give him time to work things out, so I just let him do what he was doing.
– And there was no turning back then. I met Pam and went to dinner with her. My daughter worked for her. I couldn’t believe it. ‘
Anderson married Hayhurst with no friends or family present during the confinement
Underneath the wedding dress, Pamela Anderson said she wore a pair of sturdy Hunter rain boots while on the muddy floor of her property
“I am exactly where I need to be – in the arms of a man who really loves me,” Canadian Anderson told DailyMailTV in an exclusive interview. Anderson, originally from Canada, vibrates in the photos of the nuptials conducted by a local pastor, during which the couple read the traditional vows
Carey said he moved in July. Since then, she has put the house up for sale.
Carey’s daughter Denise, 21, who worked as a worker at Anderson’s house, told The Sun that the couple managed to keep their relationship a secret, even though she was working at the house with the two.
“I was shocked when I heard about it,” she said.
‘I just thought,’ How can this be something? ‘I’m here working with them full time and I had no idea.
‘And the fact that he has a family, we were a mixed family, he has two small children and obviously she is much older.
‘What was your thought process? What was going on in your mind?
“I was so shocked. It is so unreal, like something out of the cinema. I can not believe. Everyone thinks it’s a cloistered love story and nobody knows that there was an affair and that a family is involved.
Denise said that she and her mother were upset that Anderson was describing it as a dream that came true when other people were involved.
“And I think the hardest part is that people are being fed with this one-sided fairy tale story, when in reality there is much more than that,” said Denise.
“It has damaged many people’s lives. It has been very difficult for my mother.
‘She fully stepped up and was a full-time mother for those children. It has been difficult to see her go through this.
‘There were no hard times or things were bad at home, things were completely normal during the whole thing until it happened.’
She speculated that Anderson, who returned full-time to his hometown in Canada in 2019, would resume a jet set life once the pandemic was over.
“I don’t think it works,” she said.
Carey concluded, ” I just think, ‘Wow, who are you? Who is the man I was with for five years? ‘None of this makes sense.’
Anderson’s representative has not yet responded to DailyMail.com’s request.